Pastoral Grief referred to in this study is a pastoral service to those who are grieving especially to the congregation of GMIST in the City of Manado. The pastoral duty must be carried out by Church councils in this case the Pastor, Elder and Deacon. Based on observations and interviews with Church councils, it was found that the pastoral care of grief for them only applies when a person dies and that is only a consolation and funeral service. Even though talking about grief does not only apply to people whose closest relatives die. This prompted researchers to conduct further research on Church councils in the GMIST congregation of Musafir Manado City. This study aims to find out how the understanding and practice of special servants about the task of the Pastoral Grief service and what the impact of the service results and the meaning obtained for the development of the Grief Pastoral service for Church councils in the congregation of GMIST Musafir in Manado. This study uses a qualitative approach with descriptive research methods which will describe in full the purpose of the study so that it is expected to get valid and scientific results about the understanding of special servants regarding Pastoral Grief.

This research is purposed to know the society comprehension about abortion, factors that motivate women did the abortion, and how the Pastoral Counseling that will be held to the abortion subjects. This research is a qualitative research by using the case study method that will be held in Kalinaun Village in 2019. From that results above, we recommend to the religious figures to do role as God’s servant in the church especially in the midst of the congregation even in the society, so that will be better behavior from the subjects that make the young women become more valuable, and how the government in Kalinaun Village can work together with the religious figures by making the program such as socialiszation about the abortion actions.

The notion that pastoral theology is less intellectual than biblical, systematic and historical theology is also considered only as applied theology makes theology often overlooked. Efforts to make pastoral theology a branch of theology parallel to each other, require a long struggle by European and American pastoral theologians. The long struggle that produced positive results also felt its impact in the development of pastoral theology in Indonesia. However, the concept of pastoral theology developed in the Western world and then brought to Indonesia influenced the concept of Indonesian pastoral theology. The style and color of Western pastoral theology is still very thick, because it needs to be contextualized according to the conditions of Indonesian society. Western pastoral theology is thick with its individualism, while the Indonesian context is very diverse. For Indonesia with the context of its plural society with all its unique contexts and problems, pastoral theology is a theological reflection on and in the context of pastoral care. The correlative theology method is seen as a theological method that is relevant to the Indonesian context.

The purpose of this study is (1) analyzing the roles of men and women in Genesis 1-3, (2) identifying and analyzing the roles of men and women in the family in the Church (3) analyzing and describing the pastoral church about the role of men and women in the family of the Church. This research is a qualitative study, with a socio-historical analysis to analyze the text of Genesis 1-3, at the Evangelical Christian Church in Minahasa (GMIM) of the Jerusalem Paal Dua Church in Manado in 2018. Data is collected through interpretation, observation, interview and documentation study. From the results of the analysis and interpretation of the data obtained an indication that: (1) the roles of men and women in Genesis 1-3 are not equal, where men are still higher, according to the context in the agrarian society at that time (2) the role of men men and women in the family even though it is in the context of a networked society but still unequal, where men are still higher as in an agrarian society because the congregation still reads the Bible without knowing the context of writing (3) the Church still has not seen the role of men and women who equivalent as something important in pastoral care because it indirectly still preserves patriarchal views as in agrarian societies. From these findings it is recommended that (1) the congregation read the Bible according to the context because even though the message of the Word of God remains the same but the context and readers change (2) the church in pastoral ministry is advised to teach the congregation to read the Bible according to context, not to be constrained by the context at the time of writing The Bible but teaches the liberating Word of God and dynamic faith.

Pada masa sekarang ini virus covid19 menguasai kehidupan di bumi, sehingga banyak makhluk hidup yang mengalami permasalahan dan akhirnya mengalami krisis permasalahan dan krisis ini mencakup diberbagai bidang kehidupan manusia. Berbagai permasalahan yang menimbulkan krisis ini menjadikan setiap konselor harus siap menangani apa yang terjadi di sekitarnya, karena permasalahan krisis ini sangatlah fatal bagi kehidupan pribadi seseorang dan jika konselor tidak jeli serta mahir menanganinya permasalahan krisis ini maka mereka yang mengalami krisis ini akan mengalami kehidupan yang buruk, sehingga setiap konselor harus mempersiapkan diri dan memperlengkapi denganberbagai pengetahuan yang ada. Berbagai metode harus diperhatikan oleh setiap konselor sehingga dia bisa tahu dengan pasti cara yang tepat dalam menangani kasus yang dihadapi, setidaknya metode fenomenologi yang mempercepat untuk mengetahui akan keadaan yang terjadi. Jika segala sesuatu sudah diketahui dan diperlengkapi dengan semua bahan atau perlengkapan yang dibutuhkan maka sebagai konselor siap untuk melaksanakan proses pastoral konseling dengan berdasarkan firman Tuhan. Kata Kunci: Pastoral konseling, Krisis, Konseling Kristen, Peran.IAKN MANADOFAKULTAS TEOLOGIPRODI PASTORAL KONSELING